Attend church together, shared prayer predictor of higher-quality marriages
Order matters- high school diploma, work full time, marriage, children
Strives know good marriages don’t just happen, find ways of doing better
Marriage Encounter, TOOL, Communio, Couples night out (easier if there is some organizing body), Schoenstatt
Lead with what you love. Never fail to let the other is the most important person to you. 24 hrs in a day. Once an hour not too much. Not only verbal. Use 5 senses. Give entirely to the other. Tired overlook for the other who isn’t. Will the good for the other.
Love society is the ego. Marriage is not created like this. Self-donated gift to you. Mutual exchange, both know each wills the good for the other. Greeted with happiness.
Moment at the Beautiful Gate Anne & Joachim, first moment coming together the Beautiful Gate.
He sees you like the moment he did when he looked at her on their wedding. Walking down the aisle. That look was his heart. Be her. Be that woman.
XII. Motivation for the Elites to Talk Left and Walk Right
Public show of celebrating gender equality, gender nonconformity, and the abolition of traditional roles and styles of masculinity and femininity. The expressed preferences of our elites often look different from their revealed preferences. They talk left but walk right.[1]
Elites have done nothing culturally to help those marginalized. A dereliction of duty and status. Big reason for high incarceration rate and misery among the lower classes.[2] To those given more, more is expected.
MY OPINION
Misplaced compassion. True compassion, it is more difficult but not a death sentence. Free will. Mindfully compensate for the lack.
Sabotage competition for their own children betterment
Ignorance from not seeing objective truths clearly, no realistic epistemology. Some sort of Kantian thinking.
George Bush Soft bigotry of low expectations. Tolerate in lower classes never tolerate in their own children. Never make these allowances for their children.
Regardless of the WHY, do NOT do as they say but as they do, inverted hypocrisy
[1] Wilcox 152
[2] Wilcox 219